I’m still flying high from my whirlwind weekend in Boston, which was one of the most amazing and memorable experiences I’ve ever lived. We flew out on Friday afternoon, and the celebration started then – with many runners on the same flight from Minneapolis to Boston. We spent all day Saturday and Sunday taking in the sights, sounds, and experiences of Boston and Boston Marathon weekend…the expo, Freedom Trail, Waterfront, North End, Fenway Park, great food, and LOTS of walking (and T riding as well)!
The Boston Marathon truly is the incredible, amazing, incomparable experience that everyone told me it would be! The energy leading up to the race was like nothing I had ever felt, and I was in a constant state of feeling like I needed to be pinched to make sure it was REAL! But I have the photos, memories, gear, and medal to prove it – I ran the Boston Marathon on Patriots Day – April 15, 2019. That also happened to be the six year anniversary of the Boston Marathon Bombing (4/15/2013), which also happened to be the day that I resolved that I would get there. It took me a few years, but I am so thankful that I never gave up on that goal!
On Monday morning, we woke to a torrential downpour, with wind, thunder, and lightning to boot! It was a little disconcerting, but even as the runners in my hotel were up and eating breakfast before 6am while watching the downpour through the windows, there was so much energy – AND the forecast was for that weather to blow through before the race actually started. It was most certainly a wet start to the morning – getting to the buses in Boston Commons was an experience…so many ponchos, shoes wrapped in plastic bags, puddles, and umbrellas. The volunteers were AMAZING (all day long)! As soon as I got off the T at Arlington, I made my way to the meeting spot for my charity team. We took a quick picture before I had to head to the Wave 3 buses, and I missed the big group picture, unfortunately, because the rest of Team BIDMC was in Wave 4. Once loaded onto the buses, we took the hour and fifteen minute trip to Hopkinton. The roads were wet, and our bus driver was committed to getting us there as fast as possible – he even fishtailed at one point, which was a little disconcerting. I felt like we were almost a national news story: “School bus full of Boston Marathoners rolls over enroute to Hopkinton.” But thankfully – we all arrived in one piece – AND the rain had stopped by the time we got off the buses! I enjoyed chatting with the runners nearby, and I made sure to check in with my son, AJ (who I really wished could be there – and I knew he was wishing that too). He made me my good luck charm back in the height of the rainbow loom craze when I had tried to qualify for Boston the first time (2014!). I’ve worn it on every long run since then, and I was definitely wearing it for the Boston Marathon!
Athlete’s Village was SOMETHING! So many runners, so many portopotties, all in one big muddy and wet field! First thing I did was get in line for the portopotty – and as soon as I got out – I heard someone yelling my name! Out of 30,000 runners – someone from my hometown happened to be close to the front of the same line I had stood in! It was great to see Laura, and be able to connect, wish each other well, and share a prayer before we headed to our starting corrals.
The walk to the starting line was longer than I’d expected, but as soon as we walked under the banner for the starting waves and headed to the “Good Luck Runners” and “Hopkinton Start” signs – the energy was palpable. We were about to hit the starting line of the BOSTON MARATHON!! My race goals were all about soaking up the experience, and there was nothing in there about pace or time – this was about being present every moment and every mile. Thanking the volunteers. High fiving the amazing spectators. Taking pictures. Reading all the signs. FULLY experiencing the Boston Marathon. My training hadn’t been great, and I was nursing some sore/overused muscles. This day was not about speed or performance – it was about the experience.
The weather at the start was PERFECT! It was overcast and cool, with a slight tailwind. I was very comfortable in my tank, capris, and arm sleeves – although it didn’t take me long to shed the arm sleeves. Somewhere between Framingham and Natick the sun came out, and the weather turned from perfect to heat, sunshine, and soul-sucking humidity. My family had originally planned to get to Framingham as a first stop to cheer – but commuter train schedules did not cooperate with that, so they revised their plan and headed to Wellesley instead. I ran as easy as I could, but the first several miles were seriously downhill – and with the energy and adrenaline – it was hard to hold back. I had been told about the hills on this course, and there were most definitely HILLS – this was a HARD race, but that seems appropriate for the Boston Marathon.
I took in the sights along the way. Spectators, dogs, kids, signs. Early in the race there was one that made me laugh (apologies for language): “You are NOT almost there! There are a shit ton of miles to go!” While I love the encouraging and uplifting signs, it’s the snarky ones that really amuse and entertain me along the way. There were dogs cheering on the runners. There was one BAMR with a sign on her back “Bandit Baby on Board” and the most adorable little baby belly (mad props to her for running a marathon for two!). An adorable little boy handed me an amazing grape popsicle. Another kid handed me Twizzlers. Volunteers filled my handheld water bottle (which I was so thankful I decided to carry!) umpteen times – or more!
From about Mile 5 to Mile 22 (or so – I wasn’t doing a great job of keeping track of mile markers…I was just running!) the sun was out. I saw my family in Wellesley around Mile 16, and that was FANTASTIC!! I unloaded some things I didn’t need to carry anymore and gave them some sweaty hugs (which without a doubt I appreciated more than they did!) before I kept going. Turns out I forgot to give them my arm sleeves, and after a couple more miles, I just couldn’t be bothered with them anymore, so I tossed them. I’m a little sad about that (they were from Twin Cities Marathon a few years ago – but I’m hoping they have arm sleeves again this year – or soon!).
Some highlights along the course…the Wellesley scream tunnel was great – and yes, I did kiss one of the Wellesley girls! The turn at the Newton Fire Station had some great fans and volunteers – lots of music and cheering. The Boston College students really brought their A Game – they actually were louder than the Wellesley girls! Heartbreak Hill did not break me. I started running up it, but switched to a power walk, and still passed three people running – while I was power walking! It did feel good to get to the top, and I celebrated with my favorite energy gel (imported from Canada!) that I had saved for awhile specifically for that purpose! Somewhere near Boston College, I also saw a spectator wearing a Gustavus Adolphus sweatshirt (my alma mater!), so I had to stop for a picture!! It was lovely to see Andrea (Class of 1987) as I was getting closer and closer to Boston!
The rain started again around Mile 22, and although it was a light sprinkle at first (which honestly felt fantastic after baking in the heat for a couple hours!), it was a steady cold rain with wind by the time I finished. I kept watching that Citgo sign get bigger and closer, saw Fenway Park on my right, ran under the Boston Strong overpass, and was ready for the Right on Hereford, Left on Boylston that would take me to the finish line! It was raining pretty good, so I didn’t stop and take any pictures in this segment (tiny regret there), but once I turned onto Boylston and could see the finish line in the distance, hear the thunderous cheering from both sides, and allowed myself to completely soak it in – it was powerful and overwhelming. I *had* to stop and take a picture then, and although I didn’t know it at the time – as I was pausing to pull out my phone and capture that vision, and as I was overcome with emotion and fighting back tears (which eventually I didn’t bother to fight back anymore), I happened to be right in front of one of the race photographers who captured me – while I was trying to capture the picture to hold with that memory.
The last segment of the Boston Marathon down Boylston Street is like nothing else I’ve ever experienced. I felt like a rock star. I knew I was finishing the Boston Marathon. I was tired and sore and exhausted, and rain pelted my face as tears ran down my cheeks. I saw the fronts of the buildings that had been seared into my memory from the Boston Marathon Bombing, exactly 6 years earlier. I imagined what it must have been like to be steps from the finish line and see and hear those explosions, which made the tears flow even more. I saw the finish line get closer and heard the crowd get louder with every single step. I soaked in the congratulations from the volunteers at the finish line. I accepted my medal and looked at it with the same “I can’t believe this is happening” feeling I’d had all weekend long. I picked up snacks that I was too cold to open or eat at the moment. I graciously allowed myself to be wrapped in a heat sheet. I wandered through the finishers’ area pretty much in a daze. Exhausted. Proud. Emotional. Spent.
Eventually I found the Westin Hotel, where I was meeting my family and where Team BIDMC had a hospitality room – and a buffet of hot food, AND hot showers available for the runners. THAT WAS AMAZING!!! I hadn’t been able to be as connected to the charity team as I would have liked, as I was training and fundraising from Minnesota, but it was great to finally meet and share that post-finish experience with such a great group of runners and volunteers from the Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center. Team BIDMC raised over $600,000 – 100% which will go towards research, patient care, and education. My $10,700 will do directly towards kidney disease research – and I love that I have been able to make a positive impact – this race and this experience has always been bigger than just my goal to do my best and get to Boston.
We celebrated at Fenway Park Monday night – and it was really great to be down on the field and in the dugouts. My husband geeked out just a little bit about that.
My 10th marathon, the BOSTON MARATHON, is in the books, but this is certainly an experience that will always be at the top of the list of the most incredible, memorable, difficult, powerful, and meaningful experiences I have ever had. I think the physical effort makes the emotional connection that much stronger. I’m grateful for all the support during training and fundraising. I’m grateful to John and Sarah for being there with me throughout the weekend and the race. I’m grateful to all the people who followed and tracked me, and sent me messages throughout the day and after I finished. I’m grateful for it all – so very grateful.